会倾听和不会倾听的父母,养出的孩子区别有多大?
诺哈网2023-08-09 16:48:410阅
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倾听不是只用耳朵听,而是调动你的共情能力,去鼓励对方继续说,多说一点!
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这个句式表达了你的认真、投入和感兴趣,并不带任何的观点、否定和纠正,让孩子感受到了全然的接纳。
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最后想说一下,所谓倾听,是全然的接纳。当你放下自己的评判,你就能将注意力放在对方身上,而不是自己身上!
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牛妈心语
回想一下孩子遇到问题向你倾诉时,你是怎么做的呢?现在,在脑海里模拟一下当初的场景,用积极倾听的方式,再和孩子沟通一次吧。试试把你想到的沟通过程写下来,在评论区留言哦。
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